When you say to the children of this sentence, what do you know that all children think?
"This is my toy, do not give you play!"
When children said this sentence, you should know how to treat? "
"I, you, our..." When the baby began to use the relative pronoun that his sense of real right is under development.
There is a American children's songs "children's ownership law" is particularly interesting:
If it is my favorite, is my;
If something in my hands, that is me;
If can be taken away from your hand, and that thing is my;
That thing I just bring them here, it is I;
If something is mine, no matter how it never seems to be you;
If I, in the building blocks of all blocks are my;
As long as it looks like mine, that's my;
If I see first, and that is my;
Your toys in place, it automatically becomes mine;
If things are damaged, it's you.
My things who all can play with 0 ~ 1 year old
Aunt went for 8 months, a day with my brother to play in the home, the elder brother of football, see she is very gentleman and asked, "can I play with your football?" Mother hurriedly replied, "and play and play, she still don't know to protect the things!" Look at elder brother kicked the football on the right are dancing happily.
Baby at this stage is trying to explore their own bodies, trying to figure out your body is your, is their own, as for something outside of the body, I am also helping, so the thing that the child who can play. Still, children like environment, have a companion to see other people to play, he will be happy to laugh, he will understand this can play. 
Neighborhood children play together, more than 1 year old since see elder brother to play with toy cars, take a walk, return in mouth shout: "to play, drink drink to play!" Big brother hurriedly ran to say: "this is mine!" Took the toy car, drink injustice to burst into tears, and try to take, grandma was carried away.
This age children, there are some independent consciousness, can also distinguish between yourself and others, the relationship between but still can't clear the limits of "you" "my", in the child's mind, as long as you like, you can reach for. So parents tell their children more "this is brother, not drink". Slowly, the child will establish the boundaries of "you" "I".
Sometimes children don't get what he wanted, the heart will be a little disappointed, even crying, in fact children disappointment is also feeling the boundaries of "you" "I" in the process. Parents just need to reassure children, let him to accept this little disappointed.
In addition, to let the children understand the concept of "borrow", know how to respect others, to someone else's home or want to play with others before you ask, after people for their permission to play, and finished, remember to return and thanks.
I thing you can't touch 2 ~ 3 years ol
Didi and mom are friendly and hospitable, often invite children home to play, but the recent don't know what's the matter, children came, no matter what play toys, didi will be the first time took the toy, and loudly say: "this is mine!" What toys to play in the village square, too, can tightly, is not willing to share. Mom and dad worry that children can't make friend, very anxious, told didi not so "selfish". But still didi I did it my way.
After 2 years, with the development of children self-consciousness, began to realize what is their own, so want to defend their rights, begin to enter the "real right sensitive period", for children of this special period, want to give parents the following Suggestions:
"Property rights" is all children go through a phase, there may be some children performed strongly, and some children show more mild. The manifestation of parents to the child to take the attitude of respect and acceptance, you know, this is lets the child understand oneself and the relationship between their own things in the best opportunity. Tell their children, and his clothes, toys, books and so on belong to the children themselves, oneself want to manage them, and shall have the right to decide whether to share. Only child to have a real rights of security can obtain good self-esteem, and to share better, avoid giving children labeled as "mean" "selfish".
To encourage and promote children share, also can make the sharing model for the child, lets the child feel sharing is a happy thing, but absolutely can't force children to take, can't give children conditions or any pressure increase, more do not make decision for your child to adult face between the child's things to others. Deciding whether to share is the rights of the child.
Some adults enjoyed playing with children, often take children's favorite toy, the children cry, feel "fun", it would result in grave damage to the child's sense of security, if you encounter such a situation, parents don't care about between adult's face, must stop.
"Give the child a special drawer or cabinet, let him hold his beloved goods, if there are any children to be a guest, can advance with children playing well hello, allow children to their favorite toys away.
If the child is willing to share food or toys, adult don't refuse, to accept and tell the children a little exaggeration, very like it, or enjoy the child's share.
Respect for children not to shar
Shows strong children, relative to the real issue is less intense children also need to cause the attention of parents, children avoid will produce "false sharing", if the share is not a child heart true expression, but hope to curry favor with the adult, or their parents' tone means to have forced, let the child hiding your true thoughts, and for a pretence of sharing, which can cause children to own insecurity, not well through this stage, a delay will make the real right.
Dongdong is one such child, mother has been asking things to share, east east every time a child home to a guest, and have been generous, but slowly, my mother found dongdong eyes reluctantly, and sometimes the children to be a guest, carted off east east, east east can't resist, very grievance.
Mother timely insight into this, helping east to get through this stage, no matter who come to home, east east toys to play, must, with the approval of east east and mother tell dongdong, you don't want to share something, can express it loudly, this is something that belongs to you, you have the right to decide whether to share. Mother respect and let you have a sense of security, smoothly through this stage, the next share are all very happy and willing
I can share with you 3 ~ 4 years ol
Huge, junjun, doodle, niuniu with four children live in a neighborhood, in order to create the environment of companion to share, to the child the four families often go out to play together, bring some more to eat, every time play to get the kids to share with each other, between adults also often share some things, give the child made a very good example. In the beginning, soldier soldier is not too willing to share, this a few parents also agree, not to force children to, at the same time, every time is very respect to share to the soldier soldier, soldier soldier of share with friends to eat, play, slowly changed, also like to share.
Huge, junjun, doodle, niuniu with four children live in a neighborhood, in order to create the environment of companion to share, to the child the four families often go out to play together, bring some more to eat, every time play to get the kids to share with each other, between adults also often share some things, give the child made a very good example. In the beginning, soldier soldier is not too willing to share, this a few parents also agree, not to force children to, at the same time, every time is very respect to share to the soldier soldier, soldier soldier of share with friends to eat, play, slowly changed, also like to share.
My things to share to those who need 5 ~ 6 years ol
Jingjing from kindergarten home and turned everything topsy-turvy to find the thing a mother asked her for what she told mother very seriously: "we have a kindergarten where you put the spare toys and clothing, I grow up, there are a lot of unused toys and don't wear clothes, and picture book when I was young, I'd like to share with those who need them, once again let the clothes and toys with new owners. So they can play again." Mother support her daughter's idea, and ching-ching together to pick up small clothes, toys, books, etc., put these things quietly in idle materials in the corner of the kindergarten. Jingjing feel very happy.
Children over the age of five, self-awareness and social development, share began to expand to a larger range. Willing to share their own things to some people in need of help. Parents can often take the child to do volunteer work, or to take children to see more people in need of help, believe that children will be very happy to participate in, and learn to put out a warm hand to others.
Know the child on the consciousness of the real right law of development, you must never wronged children, said he was "stingy and selfish" easily